To profile a Cyber Stalker, or Cyber Bully. I noticed when working with Mary Prantil initially that she was just this seemingly very pleasant, but vulnerable person with a love problem crisis on her hands, on the surface she had some deep seeded emotional problems for the most part looking back now with depression and anger.
Still, this was likened to the typical case and person that we handle on a daily basis however we really didn't see the depth of her emotional turmoil until it was too late. We soon discovered that most of her level headedness, or pleasant behaviors were short lived, or a act as you may have read in the on the first and second pages on this site showing how she just went off the deep end and progressively grew worse as time went on.
Throughout our conflict with Miss Prantil both in private and over the Internet not only did she prove to be nasty in every way, but severely afflicted with the melody of habitual lying and not forgetting her inability to follow the simplest of instructions, moreover slipping off into what seemed to be a perpetual existence of fantasy over factual reality in the way of her distorted views etc.
Her denial of reality coupled with her extremely rash and hostile behaviors subsequently caused us to totally terminate her case completely, that in turn caused a great deal of resentment and rage coming from her that was solely directed at us in the end. Prantil's unyielding rage was eventually directed at everyone that ever attempted to help her such as Psychologist, Spell Casters, Anger Management counselors, Life Coaches, Police intervention counselors, Court mediums, Probation Counselors and Clergy etc.
There were other problems with prantil such as her need to control, or to be highly controlling over any situation be it a love relationship, business dealings , agreement with or interaction concerning spell work and so on. To give you a clear example would be in the way Mary Prantil attempted to order Jan and myself around concerning the way her spells were cast, who she was assigned to for counseling, constantly challenging our advice regarding the interactions she should be having with the folks around her, and so on.
Miss Prantil is and often times was incapable of holding employment any longer then three to five months and no longer then a year. Why ? Because she wouldn't or couldn't follow instructions from her co-workers or Employers. It always had to be her way, or no way, at was reported back to us over and over again. Mary Prantil always had to run the show even if it met disobeying the orders of her employers, or actually telling her Employers in how they should run their companies even though Prantil was nothing but a common worker working through a temporary agency.
Miss Prantil has a huge ego problem that ultimately has lead to a self- grandiose perception of herself outwardly yet, has a serious self-esteem problem within that perpetuates her ever expanding fantasy world in which she lives in much of the time. As time went on, I spoke to one person in particular that had worked closely with prantil and he had told me recently that she had stated to him, "that we didn't know who we were dealing with and that we would be sorry".
Well, we're not sorry that we ran into her and moreover ecstatic that we could be useful in exposing her to the public as we deem her to be not only a vile nuisance to the public at large but a potentially dangerous person who is highly capable of carrying out intense criminal actions against her victim. We just can't imagine a stalker criminal like this carrying out the same things she's done to us against the average person. This Mary Prantil person could absolutely destroy the average person's life with no problem or with very little effort.
Prantil is a emotionally out of control sick idiot with nothing to lose morally or financially even though she holds herself in high regard and above the law and the rest of society. In essence, she's nothing more then common gutter trash who feels the world owes her a living. Looking back on it now we really didn't know who she was, or the extent that she would stoop down criminally speaking however we did know of her problems with REJECTION and her adverse responses to it. It's strange that a person like this hates rejection but often times induces it for whatever reason. Perhaps it's just a part of the chaos game for them.
We knew that she was a serious liar with a hostile disposition, especially after her case was dropped for the third time. We never thought that she would pursue us over the air ways for the next four years in her efforts to destroy a business and our personal reputations, to which she pathetically failed in doing. I think in her twisted and delusional mind she never believed that magick or Divinity could reach out to touch her in any way as she was a self-proclaimed Christian and follower of Joel Olsten, however and apparently it did reach out to touch her in the worst way as it all turned out, LOL.
Miss Prantil hid behind everything over the last four years such as the forum sites, the law, the truth and religion; yet all these things have forsaken her in the end as Divinity knows their own. Mary Prantil was a huge distortion to anything regarded as truth. Law enforcement is currently looking to jail her for good and lastly, she has been exposed for the worthless human piece of trash she really is on the forum sites, or scam sites.
I began reading the various profiles of cyber stalkers, or cyber bullies while discovering that Miss Prantil fit one of these profiles exactly. The traits matched were such behaviors ranging from attention seeking good or bad to petty peddling. She also fit other aspects of the profile such as excessively lieing and spamming extremely negative and disingenuous posts on face book, Google E-blogger and all the forum sites, or scam sites that would let her post her smut on their pages against us.
Of course, let's not leave out many of the actions listed below that also fit into her arsenal of harassment weaponry such as repetitive and hostile calling, emailing, excessive threats, cyber stalking, stalking, extortion, blackmail, liable or slander, creating false blog pages in the victims name, attempting to hack into cell phone accounts, sending Trojans, virus and worms into the victim's computer etc.
The links below will give the best advice in evading a cyber stalker should you be a private individual by simply not responding to the online-bully, or to contact your local police. However, if your'e a business or company, I'm afraid to ignore the problem, or to act like it doesn't exist will only cause more harm then good, especially if the bully or person with a vendetta is taking it out on you over the Internet.
Miss Prantil has been beaten down and completely exposed or DEFEATED beyond dispute as truth always prevails in the end; the very thing she proclaimed to honor was the very thing that destroyed her in the end. There again, Miss Prantil's life is nothing but a maze of contradictions, inconsistencies, illusion and over all FANTASY and thus how can anything real, honorable or true exist from that?
Another thing I found interesting in the cyber stalking profile was in the instance that most cyber bullies will tend to accuse others of exactly of what they are or have carried out against others and thus exposing themselves should a person know what to look for in the statements or accusations of the cyber bully. This was the case with Mary Prantil in our particular instance as all a person really has to do is in looking at the accusations that prantil leveled at us through the years only to fine that she was actually charged with some of these same activities via the N.Y.P.D.
The aggravated harassment and resisting arrest are the primary charges that you can view in her criminal report. You can also view where several people had obtained civil restraining orders against her even though she was accusing others of stalking and harassing her over the Internet. She's also made statements that we are allegedly on the run from the police however as it turns out, Mary Prantil has two warrants or more against her that she's actually running from, LOL.
One of her last postings against us went something like, "Your trying to hide a life of crime, " to which again was her speaking in regards to her own life when you look back at her civil and criminal records that span 15 to 20 years back, eight years in California and nine years in New York. Experts advise not to give this type of personality any kind of feedback no matter what they say or do however this is quite difficult when the cyber Bully on the Internet is Hell bent on scaring potential clients away from your on-line business.
These types of criminals do this by creating fear in the minds of the public in telling folks that your sites are infected with virusus, or that your business will allegedly hack into there personal bank accounts, that you will slam them on-line or divulge their personal information. Again, Mary Prantil has told the public that we will stalk them, cast death spells on our Clients etc.,etc., etc. This is why we have dubbed Mary Prantil as an "Internet Terrorist" as she plays off the fear of the public in her efforts to drive them away from a particular business, Prantil has attempted these criminal tactics with several businesses both on the net and land based.
Basically, you have to combat these statements with truth and press the cyber stalker or bully for their proof of statement against you. In they can't produce any proof of statement or charge against you, then you post statement of proof against them if your lucky enough to know who they are.
In our case regarding our identification of Mary Prantil it was no easy task in the beginning. Of course, people have certain ways of writing, phrasing sentences or using favorite words even when posting or writing emails and thus when your familiar with someone's writing style it doesn't matter to much if their hiding behind a fictitious name on the forum sites or writing to you from behind a new email address.
Everyone has a enemy or two that can be identified pretty easily and thus you have to look around and use the process of elimination to discern who it might be. Most cyber bullies or stalkers typically aren't very intelligent, so another good tactic is in tripping them up by baiting them in a email or posting exchange. For example: Miss Prantil was hiding behind her fictitious names on ROR, so then I brought her out by saying, " If what you say is true then perhaps you wouldn't mind telling us who you are. " Her ego took over and she not only identified herself but did this on her personal blog sites as you can view to this day.
I then asked her to identify the two "psychics" that allegedly "ripped her off", and she named Jan and myself. Press them for their evidence and play on their ego and they will eventually slip up and reveal themselves. This is better then combating a ghost hiding from behind a fictitious name. Really, when it comes down to it, your fighting for your on-line reputation in the courts of public opinion.
It's a fight of credibility between yourself and the cyber bully and thus you must identify the hostile person and then start posting your evidence against them. It's a good idea to keep their recordings on the voice mail as this is your sole property; keep the emails and post any eyewitness statements that you have against what the perpetrator is stating about you or what actually occurred. It is a hard fight to get clear of but once to you decide to engage ( Never Back Down ) and always go for the jugular. Show no mercy and take them down quickly.
Don't negotiate or reason with them as this is nothing but a waste of time, this type of personality is hostile and cares nothing about truth or rationality. They are usually driven by hate, greed and jealousy and can't be reasoned with. I would also say choose your words carefully so that you don't give the bully anything to twist around on you. With all this aside let me just say that I thought at one time that this was just a localized instance concerning our situation however to my dismay it's a much larger problem then I thought in the beginning.
It has been brought to my attention that their are entire groups of these cyber bullies or cyber stalkers out there and thus I thought that I'd take advantage of our unfortunate situation via using it as a teaching tool or a warning flag to all concerned should they happen to run into one of these low life's similar to Mary Prantil.
I have provided a few links you can read up on to educate yourselves on this type of personality so you won't be caught off guard as we were with Mary Prantil.
Again just a few links on this particular subject however I'm sure there are many more sources of information out there under ( Internet Cyber Stalking) or (Internet Cyber Bullies). Be safe out there as their could be a Mary T. Prantil watching and lining you up to be her next victim.
Mary T. Prantil's Cyber Stalking Profile / Methods Of Operation
(1):Prolonged Excessive abusive calling,
(2):Prolonged Excessive and hostile emailing.
(3):Slandering on the net.
(4):Scamming Businesses for free services.
(5):Filling out false police reports on businesses and private persons alike.
(6):Habitual lying about everything including her work history and other events.
(7):Cyber and physical stalking.
(8):Blackmail, Fraud, Extortion and larceny.
(9):Causing a person or business problems through city and county agencies.
(10): Fills up the voice mails of businesses and private individuals alike.
(11):Launches frivolous lawsuits against private persons and businesses.
(12):Tells business owners how to run THEIR businesses.
(13):Writing bad checks or charging back on services rendered.
(14):Threatening imprisonment and lawsuits.
(15):Incapable of understanding OR following the simplest of instructions.
(16):Making false web sites on businesses and private persons alike.
(17):Excessive calling without leaving any messages.
(18):Inciting others to lie for her in court and on the Internet.
(19):Impeding innocent other's Civil rights to free and fair trade through her vicious and public slander.
(20):Indirectly threatening personal harm or that harm is coming from others.
(21):Coercing others in making harassing calls for her to directed at a businesses or private individuals.
(22):Mass publication of her slanderous remarks.
(23):Hides behind fictitious names and post under her real name stating slanderous lies as fact.
(23):Perpetually misrepresenting and twisting of facts regarding any event especially when it comes to her criminal record.
(24): Inhibiting or disrupting business and personal communications.
(25):Impeding and violating the civil rights of others in any way and every way she can.
(26): Actively bad mouthing others with distorted gossip.
(27): Violating any land based or on-line site policy via creating havoc within, using these sites and other sites against someone to cause emotional harm.
Cyber bullying on the Internet
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